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      <image:caption>“Where are you, my little object of art? I am here to collect you.” [Quote by Pepe LePew; Photo by Dan Meyers on Unsplash]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“The fox condemns the trap, not himself.” [Quote by William Blake; Photo by Sunguk Kim on Unsplash]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Trust your instinct to the end, though you can render no reason.” [Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson; Photo by Amy Baugess on Unsplash]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Do not be silent; there is no limit to the power that may be released through you.” [Quote by Howard Thurman; Photo by Andre Alexander on Unsplash]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“We have to be visible. We are not ashamed of who we are.” [Quote by Sylvia Rivera; Photo by Icons8 Team on Unsplash]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“There is no gender identity behind the expressions of gender... identity is performatively constituted by the very 'expressions' that are said to be its results.” [Quote by Judith Butler; Poster, which hung on my wall for years, is by J.T Bunnell and Irit Reinheimer, based on the poem “For Every Woman” by Nancy R. Smith]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“A gender-equal society would be one where the word 'gender' does not exist: where everyone can be themselves.” [Quote by Gloria Steinem; Photo by Pawel Czerwinskion Unsplash]</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” [Quote by Carl Jung; Photo by Victoria Aleksandrova on Unsplash]</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Writing - The Body as Lightning Rod - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>“In order to realize the worth of the anchor, we need to feel the stress of the storm.” [Quote by Corrie Ten Boom; Photo by David Moum on Unsplash]</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Writing - The Body as Lightning Rod - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“I took a deep breath and listened to the old bray of my heart. I am. I am. I am.” [Quote by Sylvia Plath; Photo by Heidi Kaden on Unsplash]</image:caption>
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